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Female bisexuality<\/strong> means that a woman feels attraction, romantic, sexual or both, to more than one gender, usually to women and men. It is far more common than the old clich\u00e9s suggest, and many women who would never call themselves bisexual still have fantasies about another woman. Ask a group of friends over a second bottle of wine and you will probably hear more “yes” answers than you expected.<\/p>\n

Desire between women has always existed. For a long time it was hidden, dismissed as a phase or reduced to something staged for men. Today the conversation is more open, and much more interesting. We hear about it constantly, from single women, from married women and from couples, so this is our attempt to put what we have learned into one place.<\/p>\n

What female bisexuality actually means<\/h2>\n

The balance does not have to be equal, and it does not have to stay the same over a lifetime. Some women feel a strong pull towards both women and men. Others are mostly drawn to men but notice an occasional attraction to women, or the other way round. Some fall in love with a person regardless of gender.<\/p>\n

Many people now talk about sexual fluidity: the idea that desire can shift over time and in different situations. Fluid does not mean less real. It simply recognises that human sexuality is rarely as tidy as one word. Some women say they are bisexual, some prefer queer or pansexual, and plenty use no label at all. All of these are valid, and only the woman herself gets to decide.<\/p>\n

Why women often seem more open about it<\/h2>\n

It is a common observation that women talk more freely about same-sex attraction than men do, and that many heterosexual women admit to having had fantasies about another woman. Researchers still debate why. Culture clearly plays a part: affection between women, holding hands, hugging, long intimate conversations, has been socially accepted for generations, which makes it easier to acknowledge attraction as well.<\/p>\n

Women who have been with other women often describe a few things that feel different. A familiarity with what feels good, simply from knowing their own body. Less of a fixed script about what comes next, which leaves more room for slowness and play. And a particular attentiveness in the way they connect. These are tendencies, not rules. Every person and every encounter is different.<\/p>\n

Lesbian fantasies are not a verdict on who you are<\/h2>\n

A fantasy is not a contract. Having erotic thoughts about another woman does not automatically make you bisexual, and it does not mean you are unhappy with your partner. Fantasies are a playground for the mind, a place to explore tenderness, beauty, power or the thrill of something forbidden.<\/p>\n

Popular media has also created plenty of myths. Adult entertainment in particular has long shown intimacy between women as a performance for a male viewer. Real attraction between women belongs to the women themselves. That is worth remembering, especially when a couple wants to explore the fantasy together.<\/p>\n

A changing picture in Spain and Europe<\/h2>\n

Attitudes have changed enormously in recent decades. Spain legalised same-sex marriage in 2005, among the first countries in the world to do so, and Pride in Madrid and Barcelona now draws huge crowds every summer. Film, music and everyday visibility have made it easier for women to name what they feel. We look at the role of famous women in that shift in our piece on bisexuality and celebrity culture<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Progress is not universal, though. Many women still worry about how family, friends or colleagues would react. That is one of the main reasons discretion matters so much to the women who write to us.<\/p>\n

“My partner fantasises about another woman”<\/h2>\n

This is one of the wishes we hear most from couples. It can come from either side. Sometimes the woman longs to experience another woman while her partner is present; sometimes the man raises it first. Either way, the important part happens at home, before anyone contacts us.<\/p>\n