Anal Sex – A Guide to Trust, Patience and Pleasure

Anal sex is intimacy involving the anus, either penetration or gentler forms of anal play, and in escort language it is traditionally called “Greek”. More than almost any other practice, it depends on trust, patience, generous lubrication and protection.

It also comes with more myths than most topics in this glossary. For some people it is a long-held fantasy. For others it is familiar. Many simply want to understand it before they ever mention it. This entry explains what the term covers, why people enjoy it and what keeps it safe and comfortable.

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01What is anal sex?

In the narrow sense the term means penetration during intimacy. In a broader sense it covers a whole range of anal play: gentle touch, the use of specially designed sex toys or oral attention to the area. Escort profiles and forums often use the word “Greek” for it.

It is sometimes associated mainly with gay men. In reality it is practised across all orientations, and plenty of heterosexual couples enjoy it. Nor is it only something men want to give. Many men enjoy receiving, because the prostate, a very sensitive gland, can be reached this way. When a woman takes the active role with a strap-on toy, the practice is called pegging.

02Why people enjoy it

The reasons vary. Some point to a different, intense sensation, since the area has many nerve endings. Others like the slightly forbidden character of it, which adds a sense of special closeness. For some the appeal is about roles, a feeling of surrender or of leading. And some couples simply want variety after years of familiar routines.

None of those reasons makes it compulsory. Plenty of people try it once and decide it is not for them. That is a perfectly good outcome too.

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03Consent and trust come first

No other practice depends so much on mood and comfort. Even someone who generally enjoys it may not feel like it on a particular day, and that is respected without discussion. Having said yes before is never a guarantee for next time.

The receiving partner sets the pace and the intensity, and says when they are ready. Slowness is not a lack of passion. It is the main reason a first experience goes well or badly. And forget what you have seen on screen. Real intimacy of this kind is much gentler and more attentive than adult films suggest.

04Anal sex safety: lubricant, protection and hygiene

This area does not produce its own moisture, so a generous amount of suitable lubricant matters for comfort and safety. Oil-based products can damage latex condoms, which is why water- or silicone-based lubricants are the usual choice.

• Always use a condom. The delicate tissue means a higher risk of transmitting infections than many other practices.
• Never switch directly to vaginal or oral contact. Change the condom and wash first, otherwise bacteria can cause unpleasant infections.
• Clean toys carefully after use, or cover them with a fresh condom.
• Stop if it hurts. Pain is a signal, not part of the experience. If discomfort or bleeding continues afterwards, see a doctor.

And stay relaxed about small mishaps. The body is the body, and a quick shower solves most things. Nobody needs to be embarrassed.

05Prostate pleasure for curious men

Men who are curious about receiving can start very gently. A light touch or a soft massage is often enough to find out whether they like it at all, and many describe the sensation as unusually deep. The same rules apply as above: lubricant, patience, cleanliness and a partner who listens. Several of our ladies who offer sensual massage are experienced with this kind of attentive touch, and as always we clarify it in advance.

06Asking for anal sex on a date with a high class escort

This is one of the wishes clients mention most often, and also one where expectations need the most care. At One Kind every lady decides for herself which preferences she shares. Some are open to it, many are not, and quite a few prefer to know a gentleman a little first. A high class escort is never expected to agree on the spot, and even when she has said yes in advance, on the day she decides when, how and whether.

Some of our ladies say so openly in their preferences. Veronica, Aurora and Alexia list Greek eroticism on their profiles. For Louise, Mia, Katharina, Celina and Sofia it depends on the chemistry of the evening. Either way, it is something we agree with you before the date, never something to assume.

The best approach is simple. Mention it discreetly when you request your date, and we will tell you honestly which lady might fit. Clients who treat it as a possibility rather than a condition tend to have the most relaxed evenings, and our ladies notice that difference immediately. Our full service escort page explains how preferences are agreed before a booking.

You can also browse our high class escorts and read what each of our escort models says about herself. Like every date through our escort service, it takes place in a 4 or 5 star hotel or a comparable private residence, whether in Ibiza, Rome or wherever you are staying. A date is confirmed once the security deposit of at least 40% has arrived, and fees are listed on our rates page.

07Anal sex is never a given

It is not a performance and not an entitlement. It is an intimate experience that rests on trust, communication and care, and when those are in place it can be rewarding for both partners. Meet our companions, or read on in the erotic dictionary for more terms explained.