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Erotic glossary
The language
of desire.
Erotic terms explained openly and without judgement: what they mean, what people enjoy about them and how they fit into a date with one of our ladies.
Erotic glossary from A to Z
Every term at a glance
57 terms. Terms marked "Full entry" have their own article with questions and answers.
- 69
- A position in which two partners pleasure each other orally at the same time. The name comes from the shape of the numbers. More classics are in our…
- Anal SexFull entry
- Anal sex – known in escort language as "Greek" – is one of the most frequently fantasized-about and most delicate intimate practices. It depends on trust, patience, generous…
- BDSMFull entry
- BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism: consensual erotic play with power, control and sensation.
- Body-to-body massage
- A sensual massage in which the masseuse uses her whole body rather than only her hands. A related variation is sometimes called a "Thai" massage.
- BondageFull entry
- Bondage is the erotic art of restraint: one partner is lightly or fully bound, the other holds the reins. Its thrill lies in trust and surrender – and…
- Companion
- A lady who accompanies a gentleman to dinners, events, travels or private time. A companionship date may or may not include intimacy. The classic French term is dame…
- Couples service
- A date designed for a couple, usually with a bisexual companion who enjoys giving attention to both partners. See our guide to escorts for couples.
- CourtesanFull entry
- A courtesan was historically an educated, cultivated woman who was the companion of wealthy or powerful men, valued for her conversation and charm as much as for intimacy.…
- CuckoldFull entry
- A cuckold is a partner, usually a man, who finds it arousing that his partner is intimate with someone else, with his full knowledge and consent. Historically the…
- Dinner Date EscortFull entry
- A dinner date escort is a companion booked to accompany a client to dinner, usually at a fine restaurant, with conversation and charm as the focus. The evening…
- Dirty TalkFull entry
- Dirty talk is the use of suggestive, flirtatious or erotic words before or during intimacy to build desire and closeness, from gentle compliments to bolder language.
- Dominant (Master or Mistress)
- The person who takes the leading role in BDSM play. The role is agreed in advance and can end at any moment through the safe word.
- Dominatrix & FemdomFull entry
- A dominatrix is a woman who takes the dominant, leading role in a consensual erotic scene. Femdom (female domination) describes any dynamic in which the woman holds the…
- Duplex (duo)
- A date with two ladies who focus their attention entirely on you, without significant intimacy between themselves. If they are also intimate with each other, it becomes a…
- EdgingFull entry
- Edging is the practice of bringing arousal close to orgasm, then pausing or slowing down before the point of no return, and repeating this several times. The aim…
- Erogenous ZonesFull entry
- Erogenous zones are areas of the body that are especially sensitive to touch, such as the lips, neck or ears, and can create pleasure or arousal when caressed.
- Erotic MassageFull entry
- An erotic massage is a slow, sensual full-body massage in which touch is used for pleasure and closeness rather than therapy, with limits agreed beforehand.
- Erotic striptease
- A sensual dance in which a lady slowly undresses to music. It is all about anticipation, eye contact and revealing little by little.
- Escort
- A sophisticated companion who offers her time, her presence and, if she wishes, intimacy. A high class escort stands out through elegance, education and the ability to feel…
- Face sitting
- A practice with a playful element of dominance, in which one partner sits over the other to receive oral attention.
- Fetish
- A sexual fascination with a particular body part, material, garment or object, from stockings and lingerie to leather. Fetishes are far more common than many people think and…
- Foot FetishFull entry
- A foot fetish is a special erotic fascination with feet – their shape, their care and the way they are dressed. It is one of the most widespread…
- ForeplayFull entry
- Foreplay is everything two people do to build closeness and arousal before sex, from kissing and touching to massage, flirting and conversation.
- FrenchFull entry
- In escort language, "French" is the discreet term for oral intimacy given to a man. On profiles it often appears as "French eroticism", sometimes together with "69".
- GFEFull entry
- GFE stands for girlfriend experience: an escort date with the warmth of time with a partner, including conversation, affection and no sense of hurry.
- Gigolo
- A male escort, usually booked by women. The word is old-fashioned but still widely understood.
- Golden ShowerFull entry
- A golden shower is an erotic play in which urine becomes part of the excitement – usually as an expression of trust, surrender or playful dominance. It is…
- Happy ending
- A term from sensual massage meaning the massage ends with a climax. Whether a massage includes it is agreed beforehand.
- Incall vs OutcallFull entry
- Incall means the client visits the escort at her location; outcall means the escort comes to the client, usually to a hotel or a private home.
- Internal Ejaculation in MenFull entry
- Internal ejaculation – also called ejaculation control, semen retention or coitus reservatus – describes the practice of experiencing intense arousal or orgasm without outward ejaculation. It comes from…
- KamasutraFull entry
- The Kamasutra is an ancient Indian Sanskrit text on love, desire and the art of living, attributed to Vatsyayana; only a small part of it describes sexual positions.
- Lesbian ThreesomeFull entry
- A lesbian threesome is a date with two women who are intimate not only with you but also with each other. Its magic depends on one thing above…
- Lingerie & Stocking FetishFull entry
- A lingerie fetish is a strong erotic attraction to lingerie such as stockings, suspenders, lace, silk or corsets, where the garments play a central part in arousal. A…
- Nuru MassageFull entry
- A nuru massage is a Japanese body-to-body massage using a slippery, odourless gel, in which the giver glides over the receiver with her whole body.
- Oral SexFull entry
- Oral sex means pleasuring a partner's intimate areas with the mouth, lips and tongue. For many people it is one of the most intimate and trusting forms of…
- OrgasmFull entry
- An orgasm is the peak of sexual arousal, a wave of intense pleasure followed by deep relaxation. It is experienced differently by every person and can be reached…
- Outcall
- A date where the companion comes to you, at your hotel or private residence, or meets you at an agreed place.
- Overnight EscortFull entry
- An overnight escort is a companion booked for a whole night, usually from the evening until the next morning. A typical overnight date combines dinner, private time, sleep…
- Pegging
- A practice in which a woman takes the active role in anal play with a man, using a strap-on toy. Lubricant, patience and clear communication are essential.
- PolyamoryFull entry
- Polyamory means having more than one romantic relationship at the same time – with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. Its focus is on honesty, intimacy and…
- Prostate MassageFull entry
- A prostate massage is the gentle stimulation of the prostate gland in men, done for pleasure or medical reasons, and as an erotic practice always based on clear…
- PSEFull entry
- PSE stands for porn star experience: a bolder, more playful escort date with lingerie, teasing and role play, always within the lady's own preferences.
- Rimming
- Oral stimulation of the anal area, also called anilingus or, in Spanish escort slang, the "black kiss". Thorough hygiene is essential.
- Safe Word & AftercareFull entry
- A safe word is a word agreed in advance that immediately stops or slows down an erotic scene. Aftercare is the time of care and closeness after intense…
- Sex Games & Role PlayFull entry
- Sex games and role play add imagination, anticipation and humor to intimacy. From a simple blindfold to a carefully staged fantasy, they invite adults to step out of…
- Sex PositionsFull entry
- Sex positions are the different ways two people arrange their bodies during intimacy. Exploring them is less about acrobatics and more about closeness, comfort, eye contact and discovering…
- Sex ToysFull entry
- Sex toys are devices designed to enhance arousal and pleasure, alone or with a partner. Today they range from discreet, beautifully designed vibrators to toys made specifically for…
- ShibariFull entry
- Shibari is the Japanese art of decorative rope bondage, in which a partner is tied in deliberate, often symmetrical patterns. The focus lies as much on aesthetics, trust…
- SpankingFull entry
- Spanking is the consensual, playful striking of a partner's bottom with an open hand as part of erotic play. It is usually light and aims at anticipation, warmth…
- SquirtingFull entry
- Squirting describes the release of fluid from a woman during intense arousal or orgasm. It is fascinating, often misunderstood – and never something to be demanded or measured.
- Striptease & Lap DanceFull entry
- A striptease is a slow, playful undressing performance to music, and a lap dance is a close dance on or near a partner’s lap. Both are built on…
- Submissive
- The person who takes the yielding role in BDSM play. Submission is always voluntary, and the submissive's limits define the scene.
- SwingingFull entry
- Swinging is a consensual lifestyle in which committed couples share erotic experiences with other couples or singles, together and by mutual agreement, while keeping their emotional bond exclusive.
- Tantra MassageFull entry
- A tantra massage is a slow, full-body massage inspired by tantric ideas, using breath, oil and attentive touch to build deep relaxation and sensual awareness.
- Tantric SexFull entry
- Tantric sex is a slow, mindful approach to intimacy inspired by ancient Indian traditions. Instead of rushing toward a goal, it invites you to savor breath, touch and…
- Threesome (FFM / MMF)Full entry
- A threesome is an intimate encounter between three consenting adults. The two most common forms are FFM (two women and one man) and MMF (two men and one…
- ThroupleFull entry
- A throuple is a committed romantic relationship between three people who are all partners and openly agree on how it works. It is a form of polyamory and…
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About the erotic glossary
Sexual terms explained, without the awkwardness
Most of our clients know exactly what they like. Fewer know what it is called, and some would rather look it up quietly than ask. That is why we wrote this erotic glossary. Each entry explains a term in plain words, says what people tend to enjoy about it, and is honest about consent, safety and the limits that matter. No lecture, no shock value.
One Kind is a high class escort agency, so every entry also answers the practical question: how does this fit into a date? Our ladies list their preferences on their escort model profiles, and anything you would like is agreed with us before the date, never assumed. Our Perfect Match guides help you find the companion who shares your interests, and the rates are the same in every city. A date is confirmed once the security deposit of at least 40% has arrived.
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